Updates

So...last time I wrote it was about D. I do have a few updates on that subject, among others.
Since I've last posted, R received the cell phone bill. The cell phone plan is shared between me, R, and his brother. R said he was looking over the bill and who was I talking to at 2 in the morning with a different area code while he was gone?

What?! Omg, he checks the cell phone bills?! WTF!

I told him it was my friend from college who I thought would be at the guys' party that I was at that night. It was so weird. He then said, "Okay, are you sure?" Again...OMG! WTF! I felt like I was 16 again and my mom was asking me if I was lying about going to the movies and sleeping over a friend's house. Anyways, everything's been good since then.

We went to the beach on the 15th for a week, and it was great to be away from everything for a couple days. (Of course, when I got back to work, everything was a mess and I'm still super stressed out about the going-ons of the office.)

When I got back, I checked up on some stuff on Facebook since I hadn't been on it, etc. I looked at D's profile. There was a comment on there from a girl that I sort of know through mutual friends. She's a little bit crazy and is going through a divorce...well, because she's a sex addict. Yeah.

Anyhow, she'd posted "It was great seeing you the other night." -- something like that. I was thinking, "How the hell does she know D?" To find the answer, I sent him a message asking how he knew her, since she lives by me, and blah blah blah...
He said he knew her from high school and hadn't seen her since then, so it was crazy that they ran into each other at the guys' party.

The guys' party?

My guy friends that had the party before had another one while I was away at the beach. I was really bummed that I was going to miss it, but I never ever thought that D would actually show up for it! When I found out they were having another party, D had RSVP'd 'maybe' and I chose not to RSVP even though I knew I couldn't make it. So, I'm thinking he likely thought I'd be there. I mean, he hasn't driven up here in years, and never comes up for those parties. WTF?!
And that's where he ran into this girl I know from his high school...which btw, how does she even know these guy buddies of mine?! I still don't know the answer to that question. And I don't know what D did while he was up here for that party. It is probably a good thing that I was away though, because R would have gone with me had we been in town. And I would have had a freakin' heart attack.

So, now --- I still don't know what to think about D. I was okay after he pulled the "cold shoulder" act...at least I knew my answer...or thought I did. But, with him coming up to the party AND drunk texting me "Heeeeyyyyyyy!" late Friday night...I'm back at square one. Not sure if I want to try to talk to him about it or just leave it go. But, it's not really high on the priority list right now because work has been hell, and I've got R's birthday coming up AND my mom's. Lots of busy distractions.

Have a fun and safe Labor Day this weekend!